Things I Have to Tell You: Poems and Writing by Teenage Girls

Name of Book:  Things I Have to Tell You: Poems and Writing by Teenage Girls

Editor:  Betsy Franco

Photography:  Nina Nickles

Publisher:  Candlewick Press

ISBN: 0-978-0-7636-1035-7

Audience:  14 and up. Contains strong language and sexual imagery.

Summary:  Betsy Franco was inspired by a conversation with a teenage friend who expressed feelings that Betsy remembered in her own adolescence.  She realized how important it was for teenage girls to communicate their experiences, and this was the impetus behind Things I Have to Tell You.  In powerful poetry and prose, this collection explores the intense, unstable, lonely, turbulent emotional life of American girls coming of age.  Much of it is difficult to take as it exposes the stifling load of perfection, conformity, competition and sensuality heaped on the fragile adolescent psyche.  Secrets, anxiety, escape, tears, honesty, identities, appearances, bodies, hair, and the perpetual judgment of men saturate these strange and beautiful revelations about what they think it means to be a woman.  One wants to “break the stereotype of a girl as a dainty little thing who needs a man by her side in order to do anything,” while another brags “This coquette can get/any man she’s set/eyes upon/a female Don Juan/the best/I confess/cannot help but obsess/over me/devil walking/in one hell of a dress.” Candid black and white photos of girls in their element, hanging out, in front of mirrors, cars, boys, each other, blurry with energy and startling intimate clarity add a visual dimension to each piece. Some of them are remarkably mature, others painfully naive, all of them touch the adolescent that still lurks in middle aged hearts.

Literary Elements:  This book would be an excellent primer on poetry for high school creative writing, loaded with expressive images and metaphors:  Hair that blows in the wind because it’s growing regrets, conformity that grows back like a dandelion pulled up but with roots deep in the ground, steam that curls off bath water. Most of it is free verse and streaming consciousness prose,  executed with the discipline of clearly developed themes and the mechanics of good writing.

Theology:  God is curiously missing from the entire collection.  I find it hard to believe that there are no teenagers thinking and writing about their spiritual life.  Every one of the pieces is centered around a self in a world of other selves.  Perhaps that’s why so many of them are sad and lonely.  Their strength seems comes from resistance to peer pressure, authority, and cultural mandates. Love is something to control, except in “A Letter To My Great Grandmother,” which is a deeply spiritual tribute to the kind of self-emptying love that characterizes Christian life.

Review prepared by Union Presbyterian Seminary student Susan Wills

Come to the Great World

Name of Book: Come to the Great World:  Poems from Around the Globe

Author: Wendy Cooling

Illustrator: Sheila Moxley

Publisher: Holiday House

ISBN: 0823418227

Audience: Ages 4-9

Summary: A collection of thirty-one poems that were written by poets from around the world.  The collection represents an array of cultures and emphasizes the uniqueness of each while celebrating the universality of childhood. The poems bring us into the world of children. How they “think, play, talk and sing.” Kids will be able to see themselves in the poetry and can learn to appreciate the differences in their neighbors from around the world. The illustrations are vibrantly colorful and help to bring out some of the details of the poem. The poems cover a variety of topics including; adults, play, nature, poverty, and hope for the future.

Literary elements at work in the story:  A good book that exposes children to poetry and to the world in terms younger children can easily understand.  A great tool for helping children to further develop their understanding that God created the world and all that is in it and calls humankind to participate with joy and care in the life that we share with others on the earth.

Perspective on gender/race/culture/economic ability: The collection of poems will speak to all children and provides them with an opportunity to gain cultural insights by looking at the world from a more global perspective.

Theological conversation partners: Genesis 1, Psalm 24:1

Faith Talk Questions:

1.    What are some things that you have in common with your neighbors around the world?

2.    What are some things that are different?

3.    Do you think that the differences matter more than the similarities or vice versa? Why?

4.    Who created us all?

5.    Why is that important to remember when talking about other members of human race?

Review prepared by Union Presbyterian Seminary student Susan Wills

How to (un)Cage a Girl

Name of Book:   How to (Un)Cage a Girl

Author:  Francesca Lia Block

Publisher:  Joanna Cotler Books/HarperTeen (2008)

Audience:  16 – adult females.  Personally, I would have placed this book in the adult poetry section rather than YA, since it pushes beyond the personal experiences of YA readers.  That being said, it would be useful with intergenerational groups of women. I would limit discussion to small group settings.

Summary:   This is a collection of poems, written primarily in free verse, that are meant to be read sequentially.  The majority of her poems reflect events or periods in “her” life starting at age thirteen.  Several poems, however, are written to or about some of the young women whom she has mentored and/or befriended during her career.  The poems are often beautifully but brutally honest, which is perhaps because they are the reflections on the past from the perspective of an adult woman.  This gives a different quality and depth to the poems that is sometimes absent from poetry written during adolescence.  Her first section of poems, on early adolescence, are difficult in the sense that they reflect sexual experiences, illness, and death of a parent in a fairly relentless sequence of painful recollections.  The poems written to reflect her adulthood carry themes which move beyond an adolescent’s personal experience (such as having children and divorce).

Literary elements at work in the story:  This is a semi-autobiographical collection of poetic works primarily in free-verse.  It is written as a sequential work in three parts: 1) years at the asylum, 2) in the lair of the toxic blonde, and 3) love poems for girls.  The language is colloquial but creative and often intense. The absence of punctuation (except for question marks) and the all lower case typeface give a stream of consciousness feel to the poems and allow for the reader to punctuate the work as it suits them (i.e., starting and stopping a phrase or verse in different places that produces different meaning).  The mood of the poems moves generally from dark to light as the poet works through much of the pain of early adolescence and finds a kind of peace and healing as an adult woman.  Illustrations are absent, but would probably be more limiting than instructive in interpreting these poems, which ask the reader to come into her broken world and imagine it for themselves.

Perspective on gender/race/culture/economics/abilities:    The strongest perspective seems to come from her love/hate relationship with the people and culture of Los Angeles.  Her “girl” sees herself as “other” in this city of beauty and glamour (see, particularly Part II, “Lair of the Toxic Blonde”).  She stands for the non-traditional girl who rebels against the stereotypes of feminine beauty (at least in L.A.).   Race and economics play much lesser roles in her poems.

Scripture:   I would use this book of poetry to work with the theme of women in the Bible and let the group choose the passages they would like to discuss.  I would offer the book of Ruth and the book of Esther as possible starting points, but certainly would not limit it to those two. Other possibilities that may be less well known and cover a range of characteristics are Jephthah’s daughter (Judges 11-13), The woman of the Song of Solomon, the daughter of Herodias (Mark 6: 14-29), Mary & Martha (Luke 10: 38-42), Deborah & Jael (Judges 4), Hagar (Genesis 16, 21, & 25) and  the Syro-Phoenician woman (Mark 7: 24-30).

Theology:  Women’s stories are not absent from the Bible but they do sometimes require some imagination to fill in the gaps.  Women are presented in so many ways, both positive and negative: we see both the connivance of Jezebel and the obedience of Mary.  We see women of advanced years (Sarah) and young girls (Jephthah’s daughter); women in various positions in society and with various expectations of their roles in that society (Vashti, Esther, Ruth). By using this poetic work that follows a woman’s life through adolescence to middle adulthood, an intergenerational group of women could discuss how they believe they fit into society and the church, and how they view themselves as both daughters of God and members of the larger culture.  Women as women, with the whole spectrum of human emotions (desires, anger, grief, bitterness, love, etc.) are as much a part of the Biblical story as men.   By allowing the group to survey the breadth of stories of women in the Bible they may gain a better appreciation for their contribution to the meta-narrative that comprises our canon.  Also, by identifying women of the Bible who themselves were “un-caged” when God’s promises were claimed and when Jesus’ message was proclaimed allows us to place them squarely within God’s story and allows us to see ourselves as part of the on-going narrative as well.

Faith Talk Questions:

  1. Which woman (or women) from the Bible stories you selected do you most identify with at this stage in your life?  Can you remember a time in your life when you most strongly related to another biblical woman?
  2. Do you see any correlation between Block’s poems and the Biblical stories?  For you, does Block’s “girl” relate to more than one woman from the Bible as she grows older?
  3. What does it mean to be a woman in today’s (U.S.) culture?  How is this portrayed in the poems?
  4. What does it mean to be a daughter of God in today’s culture?  In the Biblical culture? Is there a difference between how you answered this question and the previous one?  Why do you think that is so?
  5. What is the strongest message from Block’s poems for you?  Is there one in particular that resonates with you?  Is there one particular passage from the Biblical stories that resonates with you in the same way?

Review prepared by Nadine Ellsworth-Moran, MDiv/MACE, Entering Cohort Fall 2004

Woof: A Love Story

Name of Book:   Woof:  A Love Story

Author:  Sarah Weeks

Illustrator:   Holly Berry

Publisher:   Laura Geringer Books, Harper Collins Publishers

Audience:  Ages 4 – 8

Summary:    “A dog is a dog and a cat is a cat…And most of the time it’s as simple as that.”  But what’s a dog to do when he falls in love with the cat next door?  Bark?  Chase his tail?  When that doesn’t work, our dog digs up a “brass bone” – actually a trombone – and plays it winning the love of the white cat in the process.

Literary elements at work in the story: Poetry/Fiction/Read aloud.  The rhyme pattern is snappy and easy to understand, and the book is full of simple illustrations with elaborate backgrounds that pop with bright colors.  This humorous and heartfelt story is about the power of love and the power of music, told through the eyes of a lovelorn dog and the cat he adores.

Perspective on gender/race/culture/economic/ability:  I like the idea of using non-human creatures such as cats and dogs to depict diversity.  Different species, different languages, different sexes are treated equally and harmoniously by Ms. Weeks.  This book doesn’t have a “bad” dog or cat but both are portrayed as lovely and loving animals who find a way to get past their natural language barrier.

Scripture:   Psalm 57: 6-8; Mark 12:30-31.

Theology:   This book celebrates diversity in a whimsical, charming fashion that would connect with young children.

At Valentine’s Day when we turn our minds to thoughts of love, we have a wonderful opportunity to talk to our children about the love of God for each one of us and our loving response to His grace.  The love from and for God should be celebrated each and every day.

Faith Talk Questions:

  1. How many of you have dogs or cats as pets?  In what ways are they different?  Do you usually think of dogs and cats as being friends with each other?
  2. Are there other children that you know who are different from you?  In what ways are they different?  Are you friends with them?  Why or why not?
  3. Jesus tells us to love our neighbors as ourselves.  How do the dog and cat from our story show love even though they can’t understand each other’s language?
  4. Name some of the people you love.  Have you ever gotten Valentines’ cards from them or made cards for them?
  5. Now think about God.  Do you feel love for God?  Since you can’t send God a card, what are some things you can do to let God know of your love?

Review by Kelly Hames, MACE, Entering cohort Fall 2008

Believe Me I Know

Name of Book:   Believe Me, I Know

Author:  Valerie Chow Bush, editor

Illustrator:  Photos taken by the children of the WritersCorps Youth

Publisher:  WritersCorps Books 2002

Audience:  8 – 18 year olds.  While there are poems written by children as young as 6 and 7 included in this collection, I believe that the majority of the works would be better suited to children slightly older; therefore I have selected a somewhat higher age range than some of the contributors.

Summary:   This is a collection of poems, and photographs, written by young people ages 6 – 22 who participated in the WritersCorps program in 2001.  This is a project of the San Fransisco Arts Commission and works in tandem with teachers to promote the writing arts.  The poems are all original works that deal with a range of topics from home life, to crushes, to drugs and violence.  The most prevalent topic seems to be racial/ethnic discrimination spanning from African-American children, to Hispanic/Latino children, to children of Asia-Pacific countries.

Literary elements at work in the story:  This is a non-fiction collection of poetic works primarily in free-verse.  The imagery and “word art” of the children is often sophisticated beyond their years and speaks of a depth of understanding of the world that we would rather not believe children possess at such young ages.  The overall maturity of the poems and clarity of expression is impressive.  The free verse style is accessible to everyone and is not intimidating for those unfamiliar with poetry.  The photos enhance the overall message that these are poems by young adults in a multicultural world, but they do not necessarily illustrate any particular poem.

Perspective on gender/race/culture/economics/abilities:    As mentioned earlier, the race and culture of the students in this program is a major theme for poems in this collection.  The feelings of alienation and unworthiness are often the product of being considered an outsider.  These children appear to come primarily from the lower socio-economic strata and their cultures are often misunderstood in their school systems and communities.  Their poems reflect their individual struggles to express themselves as valid and unique individuals who do not want to be labeled and pigeon-holed by society.

Scripture:   Romans 12:9 – 10, 17-18; Galatians 3:28-29; Mark 3:24-25

Theology:     Many of the poems, such as “The Color of My Skin,” “You Say,” “Whenever My Name is Mispronounced,” and “How You Figure?” are representative of the discrimination and alienation that some of these young adults feel in their everyday lives.  By lifting up passages that emphasize unity in Christ and the message of the gospel that is brought to and for all people, it encourages children to think of themselves a part of the body of Christ and welcome members of the Kingdom.

The passages referring to a divided kingdom, divided house emphasize that God asks us to love and respect and honor not only the stranger, but also those with whom with live.  Peaceful living is not relegated to religious services, but is meant to be enacted and lived everywhere we go and with everyone we meet.

Overcoming prejudices and creating peaceful and respectful relationships is difficult in a world that is already broken and struggling for identity. This is compounded when people’s relationship with God is either absent or strained.  However, for those whose identity is grounded in the belief that they are beloved children of God, being the catalyst for change can become less confrontational and more pastoral.  These passages help reinforce this identity in Christ and may be a way to encourage young adults to reach out even to those who persecute them.  Change will never come if someone does not reach beyond their brokenness, with God’s help, to embrace the “other.”  The selected passages also give a foundation upon which to build solid and respectful relationships with others who are different from us that can withstand judgment and ridicule from those who cling to their prejudices and anger and seek to destroy rather than to restore peace in God’s world.

Faith Talk Questions:

  1. Why do you think God created so many different varieties of people in the first place?  Tell me what you value most about being _________. (a Latina, a Chinese-American, Indian, etc.)
  2. Do you think that God discriminates?  Why or why not?  Did anything/anyone in your faith community or in scripture lead you to this answer?
  3. How would like others to see you?  What do think prevents them from seeing you this way?  How do you think that God sees you?
  4. If God’s first response is to love, and our first response is often to judge or even to hate, how can we come closer to how God would like us to treat one another?
  5. Who in your family, school or community embodies Romans 12: 9-10 (showing mutual affection and honor) and how do they do this?

Review prepared by Nadine Ellsworth-Moran, MDiv/MACE, Entering cohort Fall 2004

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